My Supports

Every person needs support to get through life. Support to me is the help you get from the people who understand you. In my daily life I receive support from almost everyone around me.


My sister






My sister and I have grown together so much since getting older. She helps my with son when my husband has to work and just lets me talk. We laugh and have fun and she is just there for me. She supports me in anyway she can.










My bestfriend



I have known my bestfriend since the 6th grade.  

She keeps my grounded. She advises me and helps me. When I need someone to talk some since into me she is the one I go to. She gives emotional support.




 

 My husband is my ulitmate best friend. He makes me laugh. I stepout of my confort zone with him. He supports me with sharing housework and taking care of our son. He helps me emotionally talking with me and bringing me to earth.

 My son gives me physical support. He hugs me and kisses on me and makes me feel like a wonderful mommy. He also mentally supports me with all the wonderful questions he ask. I like to tell the real reason things happen and answer his questions truthfully so I am always doing research.


My brother-in-law



My brother-in-law gives me support with my son. He is 15 and is usually with us on the weekend. He helps entertain my son so that I can get things done.









My calendar is my monteray support. They keep me together. I have three one in my purse. One in my kitchen and the other on my desk at work. They keep me together and organized.

LOSSING MY SUPPORT



 If I lost some or all of my supports I would lose it. I think I would have quit my job by now if I didn't have emotional support. I love my job but some days I just get so frustrated. If I no longer had my son I don't think all the other things would matter anymore. He is my heart and a body can't function without a heart. Losing the physical support of shared housework would be devastating. My house would look a mess until the weekend. I leave home early and get home in time to make dinner. Don't think my house could take it. Oh my gosh! I lost my day planner in my purse once and I almost lost it. i was not able to set up a new appointment because I didn't know if I had something already there. I did not have my password to my account. I tore my house apart until I found it. I would not have made it very long. (I have three calendars. One in my purse. One on the wall of my kitchen and one on my desk at work) If I did not have my brother-in-law my house would fall apart. I know this from last weekend when I was washing dishes and my son walked in covered in baby powder. He covered his room in baby powder. SO I had to stop what I was doing, clean it up, and make him take a nap. Then I was able to clean.



My son covered in baby powder.



 

MIGHT NEED SUPPORT

My husband and I are trying to have a second child. I know that when that child gets here I will need some new support. I will need my husband to help me with the middle of the night feedings.(He is a sound sleeper and hears nothing.) I will need the support of my mom to guide me on the right things to do. In a perfect world I would have a nanny to help me with my children. I would also have a personal trainer come to my house to get me back to pre-baby weight. I am going to need emotional support for the sleep deprivation.

Thank You to those people who show my support eveyday!